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Reading List

Anticipatory Grief

A Good Death
A Tiny Boat at Sea
Smith, Izetta
A Year to Live: How to Live Life This Year as if it Were Your Last
Levine, Stephen
A Medical and Spiritual Guide to Living with Cancer
Fintel, William and McDermott, Gerald
Aunt Lucy Has Cancer
Owens
Barklay and Eve
Carney, Karen L.
Breast Cancer Husband: How to Help your Wife and Yourself
Silver
Can I Still Kiss You?
Russell, Neil
Companioning the Dying: A Soulful Guide for Caregivers
Yoder
Everyday Strength
Becton
Facing Death and Finding Hope
Longaker
Final Gifts
Callanan, Kelley
Gentle Closings: How to Say Goodbye to Someone You Love
Menten
Gone From My Sight 
Karnes, Barbara
Handbook for Mortals
Lynn and Harrold
How to Help Children Through a Parent's Serious Illness
McCue
If I Should Wake Before I Die
Satterly
In Memoriam
Bennett, Foley
Intimate Death
De Hennezel, Marie
Journey's End
 
Living Fully in the Shadow of Death 
Smeenge, DeVries
My Family is Living with Cancer
Peyser-Hzouri and Smith-McLaughlin
On Death and Dying 
Kulber-Ross, Elisabeth
One You Love is Dying: 12 Thoughts to Guide You on the Journey
Miller
Our Mom Has Cancer
Ackerman
Peaceful Dying 
Tobin
Preparing the Children
Nussbaum
Sky Memories
Brisson, Pat
Smiling Through Your Tears: Anticipatory Grief
Hodgson and Krahn
The Four Things That Matter Most: A Book About Living
Byock, MD
The Helper's Journey
Larson, Dale
The Last Lecture
Pausch, Randy
The Last Thing We Talk About
Bayly, Joseph
The Lessons of Love
Beattie, Melody
The Problem with Hair
Foss, Karen Sue
The Rainbow Feelings of Cancer
Martin
Time Out
Kelly, David A. 
What About Me?
Peterkin
What Dying People Want
Kuhl
When a Parent Has Cancer
Harpham
When Someone Has a Very Serious Illness
Heegaard, Marge

Adult Grief

35 Ways to Help a Grieving Child
Dougy Center
A Grace Disguised: How the Soul Grows Through Loss
Sittser
A Guide to Understanding Guilt during Bereavement
Baugher
A Thousand Goodbyes
Huber
A Time to Grieve
Staudacher, Carol
A Time to Grieve
Haugk, Kenneth C.
ABC's of Healthy Grieving
Smith, Harold Ivan
After the Darkest Hour
Brehony, Kathleen A. Ph.D.
After Goodbye
Menten
After Suicide Loss: Coping with Your Grief
Baugher, Bob and Jordan, Jack Ph.D.
After You Lose Someone You Love
Dennison
Answers to a Child's Questions About Death
Stillman, Peter
But I Didn't Say Goodbye
Rubel
Caring for Your Grieving Child
Wakenshaw
Chad
Visser, Barney
Children and Trauma
Monahon
Children Die, Too
Johnson, Joy and Dr. S.M.
Comfort
Hood, Ann
Companion Through the Darkness
Ericsson
Dani's Last Dance
Head, Glenda
Death Be Not Proud
Gunther
Don't Take My Grief Away From Me
Manning, Doug
Do They Have Bad Days in Heaven?
Linn-Gust, Michelle M.S.
Dying to be Free
Cobain and Larch
Experiencing Grief
Haugk, Kenneth C.
Explaining Death to Children
 
Fatherless: How Sons of all Ages Come to Terms with the Deaths of Their Dads
Chethik
For Bereaved Grandparents
Gerner
From we to me
Zonnebelt Smeenge & Devries
Getting Through the Night
Price
Getting to the Other Side of Grief
Zannebelt-Smeenge, DeVries, and Robert
Gone But Not Lost
Wiersbe, David W. 
Good Grief
Westberg, Granger E. 
Good Grief
Coryell, Deborah Morris
Grace Passages
Many Authors
Griever's Ask: Answers to Questions about Death and Loss
Smith
Grieving: A Love Story
Coughlin, Ruth 
Grieving the Loss of Someone You Love 
Mitsch and Brookside
Healing a Spouse's Grieving Heart
Wolfelt, Ph.D.
Healing After the Suicide of a Loved One
Smolin, Guinan
Healing a Child's Grieving Heart
Wolfelt, Ph.D.
Healing a Friend's Grieving Heart
Wolfelt, Ph.D.
Healing Grief 
Hillyard Jensen, Amy 
Healing Grief at Work
Wolfelt, Ph.D.
Healing Your Grieving Heart: 100 Practical Ideas
Wolfelt, Ph.D.
Healing Your Grieving Body
Wolfelt, Ph.D.
Healing Your Traumatized Heart
Wolfelt, Ph.D.
Helping Children Cope with Disasters and Terrorism
LaGreca, Silverman, Vernberg, and Roberts
Helping Children Cope with Grief
Wolfelt, Ph.D.
Here if You Need Me
Brawstrup, Kate
Holding onto Hope
Guthrie, Nancy
Holiday Hope
Many Authors
Homicide Survivors: Misunderstood Grievers
Bucholz
How to go on Living When Someone You Love Dies
Rando
How to Survive the Loss of a Love
Colgrove, Bloomfield, and McWilliams
I Know Just How You Feel: Avoiding the Cliches of Grief
Linn, Erin
I Miss My Dad…
Tomei, Eric
I Walked a Mile with Sorrow
Cleckley
I Wasn't Ready to Say Goodbye
Noel and Blair
If I Could Just See Hope
Sims 
I'll Never Forget Those Words
Harris-Lord and Stewart
Midlife Orphan
Brooks, Jane
Motherless Daughters: The Legacy of Loss
Edelman
My Walk Through Grief
Klopfenstein, Janette
No One Should See What I Have Seen
Centering Corporation 
November of the Soul: The Enigma of Suicide
Colt, George Howe
On Playing a Poor Hand Well
Katz, Mark
One You Love Had Cancer
Miller
Safe Passage
Fumia
She Came to Live Out Loud
MacPherson
Shelter Me
Fay, Juliette
Sibling Grief
White, P. Gill
Standing Beside You
Maurer
Star Child- A Mother's Journey Through Grief
Martin
Step into the Light: Living in the Shadowof the Ghosts of Grief
Wolfelt, Ph.D.
Suicide of a Child: For Parents Whose Child Has Completed Suicide
Wrobleski
Surviving the Death of a Sibling 
Urrau
Take My Hand
Marshall, Johnson
Tear Soup
Schwiebert, Deklyen
The Colors of Grief
DiCiacco, Janis A. 
The Comfort Book
Seskin
The Empty Chair: The Journey of Grief After Suicide
Glover, Beryl S.
The Empty Chair
Zonnebelt-Smeenge and DeVries
The Empty Room
DeVita-Raeburn, Elizabeth
The End is Just the Beginning: Lessons in Grieving for African Americans
Churn, Ph.D.
The Five People You Meet in Heaven
Albom, Mitch
The Goldfish Went on Vacation
Dann, Patty
The Grief Club
Beattie, Melody
The Grief of Parents when a Child Dies
Shandor Miles, Margaret
The Grief Recovery Handbook
James & Friedman
The Grieving Child: A Parent's Guide
Fitzgerlad
The Grieving Garden: Living with the Death of a Child
Redfern and Gilbert
The Healing Journey Through Grief
Rich, EdD, MSW
The Healing Power of Love
Lintermans and Stolzman
The Healing Quilt
Snelling
The Kinittin Circle
Hood, Ann
The Seven T's
Collins, Judy
The Warming of Winter
Jensen, Maxine
The Wilderness of Grief
Wolfelt, Ph.D.
The Year of Magical Thinking 
Didion, Joan
To Live Until We Say Goodbye
Kubler-Ross
Tracks of a Fellow Struggler
Claypool, John R. 
Understanding Anger During Bereavement
Baugher, Ph.D.; Hankins, MS; and Hankins, Ph.D.
Understanding Grief: Helping Yourself Heal
Wolfelt, Ph.D.
Understanding Your Grief
Wolfelt, Ph.D.
Understanding Your Suicide Grief
Wolfelt, Ph.D.
Water Bugs
Stickney
What About the Kids?
Dougy Center
What Can I Say and Do?
Osmont
What Helped Me When my Loved One Died
Grollman
What Will Help Me?
Miller
When a Child Has Been Murdered
Conrad
When a Grandchild Dies
Galinsky
When a Man Faces Grief
Golden Miller
When Men Grieve
Levang
When the Bough Breaks: Forever After the Death of a Son or Daughter
Bernstein, Ph.D.
When There are No Words
Walton
When We Hurt
Yancy, Phillip
When Your Baby Dies
Gamino, Cooney
When Your Pet Dies: A Guide to Mourning, Remembering and Healing
Wolfelt, Ph.D.
Winter Grief, Summer Grace: Returning to life After a Loved One Dies
Miller, James
Your Grieving Child: Answers to Questions on Death and Dying
Dodds, Bill
Last Child in the Woods
Louv, Richard
Learning to Say Goodbye: When a Parent Dies
LeShan, Eda
Life Beyond Loss
Camellia Home Health and Hospice
Life Lessons
Kubler-Ross, Kessler
Life without Lisa
Ballo
Living Still Loving Always
Aasen, Nita G.
Living When a Loved One Has Died
Grollman, Earl A.
Living When a Young Friend Commits Suicide
Grollman, Malikow
Real Men Do Cry
Hipple, Eric
Remembering with Love
Levang
Renewing Your Spirit
Williams
Roses in December
Heavilin
The Dividing Line
Moren
Touched by Suicide
Myers & Fine

Children's Grief

Cat Heaven
Rylant
Aarvy Arrdvark Find's Hope
O'Toole
A Child's Book About Burial and Cremation
Grollman and Johnson
A Child's Book About Death
Grollman and Johnson
A Pillow for My Mom
Charissa Sgouros
A Quilt for Elizabeth
Tiffault, Bennette W.
A Terrible Thing Happened
Holmes, Margaret
After Charlotte's Mom Died
Spelman, Cornelia
Always My Brother
Reagan, Jean
Angel Catcher for kids
Eldon
Animal Crackers
Marshall, Bridget
Badger's Parting Gifts
Varley
Brave Bart
Sheppard
Buzzy Jellison: The Funeral Home Cat
White
Chester Raccoon and the Acorn Full of Memories
Penn, Audrey
Dog Heaven
Rylant
Don't Dispair on Thursdays!
Moser
Don't Laugh at Me
Seskin, Steve and Allen Shamblin
Double-Dip Feelings: Stories to Help Children Understand Emotions
Cain, Barbara
Drawing Together to Learn about Feelings
Heegaard, Marge E.
Elsie's Bird
Yolen, Jane and Small, David
Everyday Changes, But Love Endures
Carney, Pilkington
Forever in My Heart
Levine
Gentle Willow: A Story for Children About Dying 
Mills, Ph.D.
Getting Used to Candy
Landalf
Glad Monster, Sad Monster
Emberley, Miranda
Going to the Doctor
Brazelton, T. Berry MD
Good-bye Sheepie
Burleigh
Grandfather's Lovesong
Lindbergh, Reeve
Hooray for You: A Celebration of "you-ness"
Richmond
I Had a Friend Named Peter
Cohn
I Hate Goodbyes!
Szaj, Kathleen C.
I Heard Your Daddy Died
Scrivani
I Miss You: A First Look at Death
Thomas, Pat
I Wish I Were a Butterfly
Howe, James
If Nathan Were Here
Bahr
I'm Gonna Like Me
Curtiss, Cornell
Incredibly Lonely, That’s Me
Keckler
It Must Hurt a Lot: A Child's Book About Death
Sanford, Doris
It Takes a Village
Cowen Fletcher, Jane
Jungle Journey
McIntyre
Just a Heartbreak Away
Constans, Gabriel
Kinda Blue
Grifalconi, Ann
Mending Peter's Heart
Wittbold
Michael Rosen's Sad Book
Rosen, Blake
Molly's Mom Died 
Holmes
Mommy Stayed in Bed This Morning
Weaver
Moonlight Memories
Lewis
Muddles, Puddles and Sunshine
Crossley
My Always Sister Coloring Book
 
My Many Colored Days
Suess
My Grieving Journey Book
Shavatt
Nana Upstairs & Nana Downstairs
dePaola
Not Just Fish
Hemery
Now One Foot, Now the Other
dePaola
Play it Safe!
Learning Resources
Remembering Mrs. Rossi
Hest, Amy
Sad Hug, Mad Hug, Happy Hug
Channing L. Bete Company
Sad Isn't Bad
Mundy
Sam's Dad Died
Holmes
Sarah's Grandma Goes to Heaven
Boelts
Someday Heaven
Libby
Sometimes I Feel Like a Storm Cloud
Evans
Stacy Had a Little Sister
Old
Sunflowers and Rainbows for Tia: Saying Goodbye to Daddy
Alexander-Greene
Tell Me, Papa
Johnson, Joy and Dr, Marvin
Thank You for Coming to Say Goodbye
Roberts and Johnson
The Brightest Star!
Maresh Hemery, Janice
The Butterfly Bush
Evarts, Dawn Michelle
The Empty Place: A Child's Guide Through Grief
Temes, Ph.D.
The Fall of Freddie the Leaf
Buscaghla, Ph.D.
The Garden Angle
Czech, Jan
The Goodbye Boat
Joslin
The Grief Bubble
DeBay, Kerry
The Healing Book
Sabin
The Hope Tree…Kids Talk About Breast Cancer
Numeroff and Harpham, MD
The Invisable String
Karst
The Memory Box
McLaughlin
The Memory String
Bunting
The Next Place
Hanson
The Purple Balloon
Raschka, Christ
The Saddest Time
Simon
The Sky Goes on Forever
MacGregor, Molly
The Snowman
Vogel
The Tenth Good Thing About Barney
Viorst
The Three Questions
Muth, Jon J.
The Velveteen Rabbit
Williams, Margery
The Wall
Bunting, Eve
Today I Feel Silly
Curtiss
Too Far Away to Touch
Newman
Tough Boris
Fox, Mem
What Happens When Someone Dies?
Flynn, Jessie
What Make You Happy
Young, Amy
What on Earth Do You Do When Someone Dies?
Romain, Trevor
What's Heaven
Shriver
When Dinosaurs Die
Brown
When Pete's Dad Got Sick
Bostrom
When the Wind Stops
Zolotow, Charlotte
When William Went Away
Davies, Sally
When Your Grandparent Dies
Ryan
Where The Balloons Go
Coleman
Where Do Balloons Go?
Curtis, Jamie Lee
Where is Robert?
Dernederlanden, Christine
Where's Jess?
Johnson
Why Did Grandpa Die?
Hazen, Barbara S.
Why Do People Die?
MacGregor, Cynthia
Wilfrid Gordon McDonald Partridge
Fox
Life Isn't Always a Day at the Beach
Ganz
Lifetimes
Ingpen, Mellonie
Lighthouse
Munsch, Robert
Listen to the Raindrops
Kignell, Kirk
Lost and Found: Remembering a Sister
Yeamans, Ellen
Saying Good-Bye to Grandma

Thomas

Teen Grief

Alicia
Delacre, Lulu
Chelsey
Shannon
Crossing 13 - Memoir of a Father's Suicide
Hugus, Carrie Stark
Eric
Lund, Doris
Facing Change
O'Toole
Fire in My Heart, Ice in My Veins
Samuel-Traisman
Healing Your Grieving Heart for Teens: 100 Practical Ideas
Wolfelt, Ph.D.
Help for Hard Times: Getting Through Loss
Hipp, Earl
Hurting Yourself: For Young People who Attempted Suicide
Harper
I Will Remember You
Dower
Papa, My Father
Buscaglia
Teens Write Through It
Various Writers
The Ultimate Teen Guide -Teens, Loss and Grief
Myers
Understanding and Addressing Adolescent Grief Issues
Opalewski, David A, MA
Weird is Normal When Teenagers Grieve
Wheeler
When a Friend Dies
Gootman
When Death Walks In
Serivani, Mark
When Nothing Matters Anymore: A Survival Guide for Depressed Teens
Cobain
You Are Not Alone
Hughes
Am I Still a Sister?

Sims

Miscarriage, Stillbirth and Infant Death

A Father's Story
Neslon, Timothy
A Grandparent's Sorrow
Pat Swchweirbert
A Silent Sorrow
Kohn & Moffitt
After the Loss of Your Baby: For Teen Mothers
Nykiel, Connie
Always Precious in Our Memory
Johnson-Ingram, Kristen
Another Baby? Maybe…
Ilse, Sherokee
Beyond Tears
Mitchell, Ellen
Dear Barbara, Dear Lynne: The True Story of Two Women in Search of Motherhood
Shulgold and Sipiora
Death of a Dream
Ewy, Donna and Rodger
Empty Arms: Coping with Miscarriage, Stillbirth and Infant Death
Ilse, Sherokee
Empty Arms: Emotional Support for Those who have Suffered Miscarriage or Stillbirth
Vredevelt, Pam W.
Empty Cradle, Broken Heart
Davis, Deborah
Grieve Not 
Blue Lantern Studio
How to go on Living After the Death of a Baby
Peppers, Ph.D. and Knapp, Ph.D.
Miscarriage: A Man's Book
Wheat, Rick
Momma: For Parents of Infant Loss to Grieve and Heal By
Schweirbert, Pat
Parental Loss of a Child
Rando, Therese A.
Planning a Precious Goodbye
Ilse and Martinez
She Was Born, She Died
Cohen, Marion
Silent Grief: Miscarriage; Child Loss, Finding Your Way Through the Darkness
Hinton, Clara
Someone Came Before You
Schwierbert
Stillborn: The Invisable Death
DeFrain, John
Strong and Tender
Schwierbert, Pat
Surviving Pregnancy Loss
Friedman, MD and Gradstein MPH
Too Soon a Memory
Schwierbert, Pat
We Were Gonna Have a Baby; but We Had an Angel Instead
Schweibert
When a Baby Dies
Church, Chazin, and Ewald
When Hello Means Goodbye
Schweibert
When Joy Withers Away
Vander Meyden, Calvin D. 
When Pregnancy Fails
Borg and Lasker
Uncertain Motherhood: Negotiating the Risks of the Childbearing Years
Field and Beryl Marck
Unsupported Losses: Ectopic Pregnancy, Molar Pregnancy, and Blighted Ovum
Ilse, Sherokee